I am starting this post to help deal with our family's loss. We lost a baby and I need to help myself heal by getting it out. This will be the first of many to elp our family in the healing process. We found out Monday June 2, 2008 that we lost our little boy who was supposed to be born October 13, 2008. He was 20 weeks and 4 days gestation when he had a transfusion. We found out my ultrasound that he had passed away on 21 weeks gestation.